Grandparents Raising Grandchildren in North Dakota: 2026 Help Guide

Last updated: May 27, 2026

Bottom line: North Dakota has real help for grandparents and relatives raising children, but the right path depends on how the child came to live with you. An informal family arrangement is not treated the same as a court-involved kinship placement, a licensed foster care placement, or a guardianship after foster care.

The state’s Kinship-ND page says about 10,000 children are in kinship care in North Dakota. Your first job is to find out who has legal custody. Then apply for the child’s own help, such as child-only Temporary Assistance for Needy Families (TANF), Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program (SNAP), Medicaid, the Children’s Health Insurance Program (CHIP), or heating help.

Emergency help now

• If the child is in danger: Call 911. If a Human Service Zone, tribal agency, or juvenile case is already involved, call the child’s caseworker the same day.
• If you just took in a child: Call the Customer Support Center at 1-866-614-6005 or 701-328-1000, 711 (TTY). Ask about child-only TANF, SNAP, Medicaid, CHIP, and Low Income Home Energy Assistance Program (LIHEAP).
• If you need local in-person help: Use the Human Service Zone office finder and ask for the county or regional office that handles your address.
• If you need broader senior support: Start with our emergency help guide for older North Dakota residents.

Quick help in North Dakota

For help using state websites and forms, our benefits portals guide can help you decide when to use the portal and when to call instead.

Contents

• Case type first
• Cash help and kinship payments
• Health, food, and utility help
• School, medical, and guardianship issues
• Support for older caregivers
• Documents to gather
• How to start
• Reality checks and mistakes
• If denied, delayed, or overwhelmed
• Local North Dakota resources

First sort out your case type

In North Dakota, “kinship care” can mean different things. It may mean a private family setup, a child welfare placement, a foster care case, or a court guardianship. The words matter because each path has different money, rules, and paperwork.

Ask this question first: “Who has legal custody of the child right now?” If the answer is a parent, you may be in an informal family arrangement. If a Human Service Zone, the Division of Juvenile Services, or a North Dakota Tribal Agency has custody by court order, ask about TANF Kinship Care or foster care. If the child already came through foster care and guardianship is planned, ask about guardianship assistance before the court order is final.

For a wider list of senior aid in the state, see our North Dakota senior help guide. Use it for your own senior needs, but use this page for the child-related paths.

Cash help and kinship payments

Child-only TANF: This is often the first cash program to ask about when the child lives with you but there is no foster care payment. You can file through Apply for Help or use SFN 405. Say clearly, “I am asking about child-only TANF for a relative child in my home.”

The North Dakota TANF standard chart was updated October 1, 2025. The 0-caretaker row lists $366 for one child, $536 for two children, $697 for three children, and $866 for four children. These are standards, not a promise that every case will get the full amount.

TANF Kinship Care: This is not the same as child-only TANF. The TANF Kinship Care policy says a North Dakota Human Service Zone, the Division of Juvenile Services, or a North Dakota Tribal Agency must have care, custody, and control by court order. Children may be placed with relatives within the fifth degree.

For TANF Kinship Care, the case needs a placement agreement, unlicensed caregiver home study, and background checks for household members age 18 or older. North Dakota says the background check must be completed within 90 days from the application date or date of eligibility, whichever is later. If it is not received, the kinship case can close.

Licensed foster care: Grandparents can sometimes receive foster care maintenance payments, but the child usually must be in foster care and the home must be licensed or approved. The state payment rates sheet lists family foster care maintenance rates effective July 1, 2025: $900 per month for ages 0-4, $1,020 for ages 5-12, and $1,110 for ages 13 and older.

Guardianship help: North Dakota also lists guardianship subsidy rates of $19 per day for state guardianship and $28 per day for Title IV-E guardianship on the same payment sheet. These are for certain children coming from foster care. Ask the foster care case manager before guardianship is final. Kinship-ND also announced guardianship funds of up to $2,500 for current Kinship-ND caregivers to help with the initial guardianship process.

Health, food, and utility help

Health coverage: Children in your home may qualify for Medicaid or CHIP. North Dakota’s CHIP page says coverage is for uninsured children through the month they turn 19 when income fits the chart. The April 1, 2026 CHIP chart lists monthly income limits of $3,697 for a family of two, $4,668 for three, and $5,638 for four. If you only want medical coverage, the Medicaid application page explains that families can use SFN 1909. If you also need cash, food, or child care help, use the broader assistance form instead.

Food help: SNAP can help with groceries. The North Dakota SNAP brochure lists maximum monthly SNAP allotments from October 1, 2025 through September 30, 2026: $546 for two people, $785 for three, and $994 for four. Your amount may be lower if the household has income. You can also check the SNAP page for current application options.

Summer food: The Summer EBT page says the 2026 benefit is $120 per eligible school-age child. Some children are approved through SNAP, TANF, Medicaid, school meal data, or Food Distribution Program on Indian Reservations records. Others may need an application.

Heating and utility help: North Dakota’s LIHEAP page says help is now available year-round, not only during the old heating season. The 2025-2026 monthly income limits include $3,378 for one person, $4,418 for two, and $5,457 for three. Renters and homeowners may apply. Tribal members living on reservations may use tribal LIHEAP programs.

For senior housing costs outside the child’s case, see our housing help guide. For electric, gas, and shut-off problems, our bill help page may also help you find backup options.

School, medical, and guardianship issues

Money is only one problem. Many grandparents first get stuck at school enrollment, medical consent, records, or insurance. If you do not have a court order or signed parent paperwork, each school or clinic may ask for different proof.

North Dakota’s minor guardianship page explains the court process for a child guardianship. A guardian can make decisions for the child, but this is a legal step. It does not end parental rights by itself.

If the situation is urgent, the court’s emergency guardianship page says a hearing is required for all emergency guardianships. It also says an emergency guardianship lasts no more than 60 days from the hearing, although the judge may extend it up to six months.

For health care questions, Legal Services of North Dakota has an explanation of the informed consent law. That may help in some medical situations when a parent or guardian cannot be reached. It is not the same as full guardianship. The NDSU guide also warns that school and medical tasks can be hard when grandparents do not have legal custody or guardianship.

Support for older caregivers

If you are age 55 or older and caring for a grandchild or other young relative, ask about the Family Caregiver Support Program. The state caregiver program serves older relative caregivers age 55 or older who care for children age 18 or younger. It can offer local service information, a caregiver coordinator, counseling, support groups, training, respite, and some supplemental help.

Call ND Aging and Disability Resource-LINK at 1-855-462-5465, 711 (TTY), or email carechoice@nd.gov. For a GFS guide focused on caregiver payment routes, see family caregiver pay. It can help you sort paid care from respite or support services.

Guardianship families may also contact the Post Adopt Network at 1-844-454-1139 for support after placement. Families caring for a disabled child or dealing with disability access can also use our disability help guide for North Dakota.

Documents to gather

Apply even if you do not have every document yet. But make a folder as soon as you can. Keep paper copies and phone photos.

• Your photo ID
• Child’s birth certificate, if you have it
• Child’s Social Security number, if available
• Proof the child lives with you now
• Any court order, custody paper, or placement agreement
• Parent names, phone numbers, and last known addresses
• School records and immunization records
• Insurance card, medication list, and doctor names
• Your income proof and any child income proof
• Rent, mortgage, utility, and heating bills
• Notes from each call, including date, name, and next step

How to start without wasting time

Step one: Write down the child’s current living date. Benefits and school records often ask when the child moved in.

Step two: Ask who has legal custody. Do not guess. A wrong case type can cost time and money.

Step three: Apply for the child’s benefits. Use child-only TANF, SNAP, Medicaid or CHIP, and LIHEAP when the household needs them.

Step four: If a caseworker is involved, ask whether you should be screened for TANF Kinship Care, foster care licensing, or guardianship assistance.

Phone scripts you can use

• For child-only TANF: “I am a grandparent caring for a relative child. The child lives with me now. I want to ask about child-only TANF, SNAP, and Medicaid or CHIP.”
• For a court-involved case: “Can you tell me whether this is TANF Kinship Care, foster care, or another placement type? What forms or checks are still missing?”
• For school or medical access: “The child now lives with me. What exact paperwork do you need for enrollment, records, medical consent, and emergency contacts?”
• For respite: “I am over 55 and caring for a grandchild full time. Can you screen me for caregiver support, respite, and local services?”

Reality checks and common mistakes

• Child-only TANF is modest: It helps, but it usually does not cover the full cost of raising a child. Add SNAP, Medicaid or CHIP, school meals, and LIHEAP when eligible.
• Kinship care is not always foster care: Do not assume the word “kinship” means you will receive foster care rates.
• Background checks matter: TANF Kinship Care can close if adult household checks are not completed on time.
• Out-of-state custody is different: North Dakota policy says a child in the legal custody of an out-of-state entity is not eligible for North Dakota TANF Kinship Care, even if placed in North Dakota.
• Portals can slow you down: If the portal is hard to use, call, mail the form, or ask for local office help.
• Do not wait for the crisis to pass: Apply early. If the child goes home, you can report the change.
• Do not let a new adult move in quietly: In TANF Kinship Care, a new adult in the home can trigger a new background-check deadline.

If denied, delayed, or overwhelmed

Ask for the reason in plain words. You need to know whether the problem is missing proof, income, custody, relationship, background checks, or the wrong case type.

Ask these questions:

• “Which program did you screen us for?”
• “Was this child-only TANF, TANF Kinship Care, foster care, Medicaid, CHIP, SNAP, or LIHEAP?”
• “What document is missing?”
• “Where should I send it?”
• “What is the deadline?”
• “Can I still apply for another program while this is fixed?”

If the main cash path fails, use backup options. Ask about SNAP, Medicaid or CHIP, school meals, Summer EBT, LIHEAP, Kinship-ND, and the Family Caregiver Support Program. If you need non-government support, our local charities guide may help you find food, clothing, or emergency items. For older-adult service navigation, our area agencies guide is another starting point.

Local North Dakota resources

For a broader national overview, see our grandfamily programs guide. Use it for general context, but always follow North Dakota rules for money, forms, and custody.

Resumen en español

En Dakota del Norte, la ayuda para abuelos que crían nietos depende de cómo llegó el niño a su hogar. Si no hay orden de la corte, pregunte por TANF solo para el menor, SNAP, Medicaid o CHIP, comidas escolares y LIHEAP. Si una Human Service Zone, una agencia tribal o la Division of Juvenile Services tiene custodia por orden de la corte, pregunte si el caso es TANF Kinship Care o cuidado de crianza con pago.

También puede llamar a Kinship-ND para orientación de parentesco. Si necesita autoridad para la escuela o el médico, revise la tutela de menores. Si usted tiene 55 años o más y cuida a un niño, pregunte por apoyo para cuidadores, relevo y servicios locales. Si una solicitud se demora o se niega, pida la razón exacta, el documento que falta y la fecha límite.

Frequently asked questions

Can a North Dakota grandparent get TANF without counting their own needs?

Sometimes. Ask for child-only TANF if the child lives with you and you do not want to be included in the TANF grant. The child still has to meet the program rules.

Is TANF Kinship Care the same as child-only TANF?

No. TANF Kinship Care is for certain court-involved placements where a North Dakota Human Service Zone, DJS, or North Dakota Tribal Agency has care, custody, and control. Child-only TANF may fit some informal relative-care cases.

Can I get full foster care payments for my grandchild?

Maybe, but usually only if the child is in foster care and your home is licensed or approved as a foster care setting. Ask the child’s case manager about the licensing path.

Do I need guardianship for school or medical care?

Not always, but it often makes things easier. Without a court order or parent paperwork, schools and clinics may ask for more proof before they release records or accept consent.

What if I do not have all the child’s papers?

Apply anyway if the child needs help. Tell the worker what is missing and ask what can be turned in later. Keep notes from each call.

Is there help if I am age 55 or older and need a break?

Yes. Ask ND Aging and Disability Resource-LINK about the Family Caregiver Support Program. It may help with respite, support groups, training, and caregiver coordination.

What should I do if one program denies us?

Ask which program denied the case, why it was denied, and what proof is missing. Then ask whether another path fits, such as SNAP, Medicaid or CHIP, LIHEAP, child-only TANF, Kinship-ND, or guardianship help.

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Last updated: May 27, 2026. Next review: August 27, 2026.