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Last updated: May 5, 2026
Bottom line: A senior in New Mexico may be able to have a family member paid, but there is no one program for everyone. Start with Community Benefit if Medicaid may fit. Check New MexiCare if the senior is age 60 or older and Medicaid does not fit. Veterans should ask about Veteran Directed Care. An adult child is often easier to approve than a spouse. Keep the New Mexico senior benefits guide open for other state help.
Quick start: where to begin
| If this is your situation | Start here | What to ask for |
|---|---|---|
| The senior is in danger now | Call 911. For abuse, neglect, or exploitation, call Adult Protective Services at 1-866-654-3219. | Ask for urgent safety help. Do not wait for a caregiver program. |
| The senior already has full Medicaid and a Turquoise Care plan | Call the MCO care coordinator. | Ask for a Community Benefit screening and paid family caregiver steps. |
| The senior may need Medicaid first | Use YES New Mexico or call 1-800-283-4465. | Ask how to apply for full Medicaid and long-term care help at home. |
| The senior is age 60+ and Medicaid may not fit | Check New MexiCare. | Ask if the income, resource, and daily-care rules fit your household. |
| The senior is a veteran | Ask the VA or ADRC about VDC. | Ask for a local Veteran Directed Care screening and caregiver support help. |
| You are not sure which door is right | Call ADRC at 1-800-432-2080. | Ask for options counseling for paid family caregiving, respite, meals, and transport. |
Emergency help now
- If the older adult is in immediate danger, call 911.
- If there may be abuse, neglect, self-neglect, or exploitation, contact Adult Protective Services at 1-866-654-3219.
- If care at home is breaking down, call ADRC at 1-800-432-2080. Ask for help with Community Benefit, New MexiCare, veteran services, meals, transport, or respite.
- If you got an allocation packet, denial, reduction, or closure notice, do not wait. The state waiver FAQ says allocation packets must be returned within 45 days from the mailing date or the person may risk losing the allocation. Appeal dates on notices also matter.
What this help looks like in New Mexico
New Mexico does not have a universal state paycheck that pays every adult child or spouse who helps an older parent. For most seniors, the main paid-family-caregiver path is Medicaid long-term care through Turquoise Care Community Benefit. The older adult must usually qualify for full Medicaid and meet a nursing-facility level of care. If approved, care can be delivered through an agency or through self-direction.
New Mexico also has a state option called New MexiCare. It is run by the New Mexico Aging & Long-Term Services Department. It helps some adults age 60 and older who need help with at least two daily activities and meet the program’s income and resource rules. This matters because it gives some older adults a possible path when Medicaid is not the right fit.
Veterans have a separate path. Through Veteran Directed Care and the VA caregiver support system, some veterans can use a VA budget or VA caregiver program to get help from family members, friends, or neighbors. The right door depends on whether the older adult has Medicaid, may qualify for New MexiCare, or is connected to the VA.
Caregiver pay is not the only support a family may need. If bills are building up while you wait, GrantsForSeniors.org also has senior help tools that can point you to other next steps.
Quick facts
| Question | New Mexico answer |
|---|---|
| Can a senior have a family member paid? | Yes, but usually through Turquoise Care Community Benefit, New MexiCare, or Veteran Directed Care. There is no simple state paycheck for every family caregiver. |
| Can an adult child be paid? | Usually yes if the older adult qualifies and the caregiver completes all worker rules. The official paid caregiver explainer says family members and friends can be paid in the Community Benefit program. |
| Can a spouse be paid? | Sometimes. A spouse is a legally responsible individual. The health plan must approve the request, and self-directed spouse payment has extra rules. |
| Is Medicaid required? | For the main Community Benefit path, yes. New MexiCare and Veteran Directed Care do not require the older adult to already be on Medicaid. |
| Is self-direction available? | Yes. New Community Benefit members must start agency-based for at least 120 days before switching to self-direction. |
| Are there waitlists or slot limits? | Often, yes. Many applicants use the Central Registry and allocation path. The process may take many months. |
| How much does family pay vary? | Agency wages depend on the employer. Self-directed pay must fit the approved budget and state rate limits. New MexiCare and VDC use individual budgets, not one guaranteed wage. |
| Best first call? | For most families, call ADRC at 1-800-432-2080. If the senior already has full Medicaid and an MCO, call the care coordinator too. |
Who qualifies
For New Mexico Medicaid’s family-paid caregiver path, the older adult must usually qualify for full Medicaid and the Community Benefit. The Community Benefit brochure says the person must meet a nursing-facility level of care. A home needs review helps decide what type of services and how much help may be approved.
For the financial side, New Mexico’s 2026 eligibility pamphlet says that, as of January 1, 2026, the countable income limit for institutional-care and home- and community-based waiver categories is $2,982 per month for a single applicant. The resource limit is $2,000 for a single applicant. Married cases use special spousal rules. The same pamphlet says up to $162,660 of a couple’s resources may be protected for the spouse who is not in the facility or waiver case when the rules apply. Do not assume you are over the limit until you get one-on-one help.
For New MexiCare, the current application page says the older adult must be age 60 or older, need help with two or more activities of daily living, and stay within the program’s current financial rules of $3,387 per month for one person or $6,774 for a couple. The page lists resource limits for savings plus checking accounts of $20,322 for one person or $40,644 for a couple. Those are not promised benefit amounts. They are program limits.
For Veteran Directed Care, screening is through the VA and ALTSD. The veteran generally must be enrolled in VA primary care, want to stay at home or move safely home, be able and willing to self-direct, and meet the local VA program rules. The New Mexico VDC page also lists a service-connected disability as a participation point, so ask the VA or ADRC to screen the case instead of guessing.
Best programs and options in New Mexico
Turquoise Care Agency-Based Community Benefit
What it is: Agency-Based Community Benefit, also called ABCB, is the standard first step for many new Community Benefit members. Services are delivered by a provider agency that contracts with the senior’s Medicaid managed care organization, also called an MCO.
Who can use it: This option is for older adults who have full-coverage Medicaid and qualify for Community Benefit services. The state says any family member or friend can be a paid caregiver. A legally responsible person, such as a spouse, can be paid only after the health plan completes a needs assessment and approves that caregiver.
How it helps: This is the path many families use when a senior needs help with bathing, dressing, toileting, meal prep, shopping, transfers, or similar daily care. In agency-based care, the caregiver must become an employee of the home health agency. The agency handles payroll, hiring paperwork, and supervision. The caregiver must also use the EVV system to track hours.
How to apply or use it: If the senior is already in a Turquoise Care health plan, call the care coordinator and ask for Community Benefit screening. If the senior has full Medicaid but is not yet with an MCO, the state says the person must enroll with an MCO to receive Community Benefit services. Call the HCA customer line at 1-800-283-4465. If the senior is not yet on Medicaid, start with Medicaid first.
What to gather first: Have the Medicaid case information, MCO name, diagnoses, medicines, doctors, and a simple list of tasks the senior cannot do safely alone. If you want a spouse to be paid, say that at the start. Do not let the caregiver start work early. Payment starts only after approval, hiring, worker paperwork, and required tracking are in place.
| Turquoise Care MCO | Member phone | When to call |
|---|---|---|
| BCBSNM Medicaid | 1-866-689-1523 | Call if the senior has BCBSNM and needs care coordination or Community Benefit screening. |
| Presbyterian Turquoise Care | 1-888-977-2333 | Call for Community Benefit, care coordination, or a change in condition. |
| Molina New Mexico | 1-844-862-4543 | Call if the senior needs long-term services at home and already has Molina. |
| UnitedHealthcare Community Plan | 1-877-236-0826 | Call if the senior has UnitedHealthcare and needs Community Benefit help. |
Turquoise Care Self-Directed Community Benefit
What it is: Self-Directed Community Benefit, also called SDCB, gives the older adult more control. The member, or a trusted person chosen by the member, acts as the Employer of Record. With a support broker, the member can recruit, hire, train, schedule, and fire workers.
Who can use it: New Community Benefit members must start with agency-based services for at least 120 days before switching to self-direction. Adult children and other relatives can usually be paid if they meet worker rules. A spouse is harder. The state self-directed manual says a spouse is a legally responsible individual. Payment for a spouse can happen only under extraordinary circumstances, with written MCO approval and annual renewal.
How it helps: Self-direction can work well when the family wants more control over the schedule, already has a trusted caregiver, or lives in an area where agencies cannot staff all needed hours. It is also the clearest route for many adult-child caregiver arrangements. The posted SDCB rate chart lists self-directed personal care from minimum wage up to about $15.428 an hour. That is a ceiling, not a promise. The final approved rate depends on the service, the member’s budget, and MCO approval. Agency-based care uses the agency’s wage, not that self-directed chart.
How to apply or use it: After the first 120 days of agency-based service, ask the care coordinator about switching to self-direction. Then choose an Employer of Record and work with the support broker. Worker papers may include an employment agreement, employee information form, relationship form, federal and state W-4 forms, background checks, and other onboarding documents. Payroll and forms support is posted through PALCO New Mexico.
What to gather first: Get photo ID, Social Security information, direct-deposit details, and vehicle registration and insurance if the worker will drive. Be ready for background checks and, when required, fingerprinting. Plan for EVV clock-in and clock-out. Self-direction gives more control, but it also brings more paperwork.
New MexiCare
What it is: New MexiCare is a state-run caregiver support program for older adults. It is not the same as Medicaid self-direction. It is a separate New Mexico option for some people age 60 and older who need help at home.
Who can use it: The current New MexiCare application page says the applicant must be age 60 or older, have cognitive or physical limits that require help with two or more activities of daily living, and meet the program’s income and resource rules. ALTSD’s September 2025 statewide notice says the program is now available in all 33 counties.
How it helps: The state says New MexiCare provides financial and training help to family and friend caregivers. The program may help with paying an existing caregiver, respite or day care, transportation, and safety monitoring. The current application page does not post one simple hourly wage. Do not rely on old internet articles that promise a fixed paycheck. Ask New MexiCare what the approved benefit would be before you make a financial plan.
How to apply or use it: Start with the official New MexiCare page. It uses an online application. The page says you need a valid email address to create an account. It also says submitting an application is not a final eligibility decision. Staff may ask for more documents. The page says Palco is the financial management services vendor and lists 2026 payroll resources for New MexiCare.
What to gather first: The application page asks for photo ID, three months of bank statements, the caregiver’s ID and Social Security card, and vehicle registration and insurance if transportation will be part of the plan. For many families, New MexiCare is the closest thing New Mexico has to a simpler non-Medicaid paid-family-caregiver route.
Veteran Directed Care and VA caregiver help
What it is: Veteran Directed Care in New Mexico is a partnership between the VA and ALTSD. It is a self-directed program. The veteran has a budget and chooses how care is arranged. This is separate from the VA’s Program of Comprehensive Assistance for Family Caregivers, also called PCAFC.
Who can use it: The New Mexico VDC page says participants are veterans enrolled in VA primary care who want to remain at home, are at risk of needing nursing home care or can safely transition home, have a service-connected disability, are willing to self-direct, and may want family, friends, or neighbors to provide services. The national VDC page says VDC depends on clinical need, community care eligibility, and local availability.
How it helps: The New Mexico page says the veteran decides who will provide care, including family members, friends, and neighbors. Services can include personal care, homemaker support, adult day care, home-delivered meals, respite care, assistive technology, and environmental support. This means a veteran may be able to pay an adult child or another trusted person through a VA budget instead of a Medicaid budget.
How to apply or use it: Ask the veteran’s VA social worker or use the VA caregiver support page for New Mexico. You can also contact New Mexico VDC through ADRC at 1-800-432-2080 or nmvdc@altsd.nm.gov.
What to gather first: Have the veteran’s VA enrollment details, disability information, a list of daily care needs, names of possible caregivers, and a short summary of why care at home is needed. VDC is not the right answer for every veteran, but it is one of the strongest family-pay options in New Mexico when it fits.
How to apply or use it without wasting time
- Pick the right door first. If the older adult already has full Medicaid, start with the MCO care coordinator. If not, start with Medicaid, ADRC, or both. If the person is age 60 or older but not a Medicaid fit, look at New MexiCare. If the person is a veteran, ask about VDC.
- Write down the daily care needs. Make a short list of what the senior cannot do safely without help, such as bathing, dressing, walking, toileting, meals, medicine reminders, transfers, or supervision.
- Apply for Medicaid if needed. Use YES New Mexico or call 1-800-283-4465 for eligibility and enrollment help.
- Ask about the registry. If the senior is not already in full Medicaid long-term care, ask ADRC whether the Central Registry or allocation path is needed.
- Be clear about the caregiver. Say whether the caregiver is an adult child, spouse, other relative, friend, or neighbor. Spouse cases need extra review.
- Do not start work before approval. Paid family caregiving usually requires enrollment, employment papers, background clearance, and EVV setup before payment starts.
- Keep every notice. Save mail from HCA, the MCO, ADRC, PALCO, New MexiCare, and the VA. Missed mail can cost weeks or months.
Checklist of documents or proof
| Document or proof | Why it matters |
|---|---|
| Photo ID for the older adult and caregiver | Needed for Medicaid, New MexiCare, agency hiring, or worker setup. |
| Social Security numbers or cards | Needed for benefits, payroll, tax forms, and worker setup. |
| Proof of New Mexico address | Needed to show state residency. |
| Income proof | Use Social Security letters, pension statements, pay stubs, or similar records. |
| Bank statements and resource records | New MexiCare asks for three months of checking and savings statements. Medicaid also reviews countable resources. |
| Medicaid, Medicare, and MCO cards | These help staff see what coverage the senior already has. |
| Doctor list and medication list | These help show medical needs and support the assessment. |
| Simple care log | Write down help needed with bathing, dressing, walking, toileting, meals, transfers, supervision, and nighttime needs. |
| Vehicle registration and insurance | Needed if transportation is part of the care plan. |
| Legal papers | Bring power of attorney, guardianship papers, or authorized representative forms if someone else is helping apply. |
| Denial notice or allocation packet | You need these to appeal, fix delays, or meet deadlines. |
Reality checks
- Community Benefit is meant as an alternative to nursing facility placement. It is not a casual caregiver stipend.
- Community Benefit is not available for 24-hour care. Families need a plan for gaps.
- Adult-child cases are often simpler than spouse cases because a spouse is treated as a legally responsible individual.
- If you want self-direction, expect more control and more paperwork.
- If you go through the registry path, the state says the process may take many months.
- If the goal is assisted living, the state says not all assisted living costs are covered.
- The state does not promise one flat hourly rate for all family caregivers in New Mexico.
- Approval does not mean every requested hour or service will be approved. The plan is based on assessed need, program rules, and available services.
Common mistakes to avoid
- Assuming Medicare is the main family-pay path instead of checking Medicaid, New MexiCare, or VDC.
- Missing the 45-day deadline on an allocation packet.
- Not telling the plan that the caregiver may be the spouse.
- Letting the caregiver start before background checks, payroll forms, and EVV are done.
- Thinking the agency’s Medicaid billing rate is the same as the caregiver’s paycheck.
- Ignoring mail from YES New Mexico, HCA, the MCO, PALCO, New MexiCare, or VA.
- Not keeping proof of what help the senior needs every day.
- Giving up after a denial without asking about appeal or hearing rights.
Best options by need
| If your situation looks like this | Best New Mexico option | Best first step |
|---|---|---|
| The senior already has full Medicaid and needs help with bathing, dressing, or toileting at home | Agency-Based Community Benefit | Call the MCO care coordinator and ask for Community Benefit screening. |
| The family wants to hire an adult child and control the schedule | Self-Directed Community Benefit | Ask about switching after the 120-day agency-based start period. |
| The older adult is age 60+ but may not qualify for Medicaid long-term care | New MexiCare | Use the online application or call ADRC. |
| The older adult is a veteran and wants to stay home | Veteran Directed Care | Contact VA caregiver support or ADRC. |
| You received a denial, reduction, or closure notice | Appeal or hearing path | Get the written reason and contact Fair Hearings or legal help. |
| You need support while waiting for approval | ADRC and local supports | Ask about meals, transportation, respite, caregiver groups, and local programs. |
What to do if denied, delayed, blocked, or waitlisted
First, get the reason in writing. If the decision came from a Medicaid health plan, ask the plan to explain the reason and tell you about internal appeal rights. If you need a formal hearing, New Mexico’s Office of Fair Hearings handles many appeals involving public-assistance actions, MCO actions, and some nursing-home matters. The HCA contact page lists the Fair Hearings Bureau at 505-476-6213.
If the problem is a delay, call both HCA and the MCO. Write down the date, time, phone number, and name of the person you spoke with. If the family is on the Central Registry or waiting for allocation, tell ADRC if the older adult’s condition gets worse. A change in condition can matter.
If you need help fighting a decision, use the ALTSD page for legal services. If the older adult is already in assisted living or a nursing home and there are rights or quality-of-care problems, contact the Ombudsman.
Plan B and backup options
If Medicaid is too slow, too strict, or not the right fit, try the closest real options New Mexico offers. Start with New MexiCare if the older adult is 60 or older and meets the program rules. If the person is a veteran, check Veteran Directed Care and VA caregiver support. If neither fits, ask ADRC about respite, meals, transportation, adult day programs, and caregiver support groups.
While you wait, look at other household supports. Some families need utility bill help, housing and rent help, food programs, or Medicare Savings Programs while they wait for care decisions.
If the family is going to pay privately, get legal advice before money changes hands. A written care agreement can help, but families should talk to an elder-law attorney or legal service so the arrangement is documented the right way. Local churches and charities helping seniors may also help with short-term needs, but they do not replace Medicaid or VA approval.
If the caregiver is also helping the older adult stay in the home, check whether property costs are a problem. Our New Mexico guide to property tax relief may help with a separate part of the budget.
Local resources in New Mexico
- ADRC: Statewide entry point for waiver questions, options counseling, meals, transportation, caregiver resources, and more. Call 1-800-432-2080.
- Health Care Authority: Medicaid eligibility, MCO issues, case updates, and general questions. Call 1-800-283-4465.
- Office of Fair Hearings: Hearing forms, contact information, and instructions when benefits are denied, reduced, or closed.
- Long-Term Care Ombudsman: Rights help for people in nursing homes and assisted living. Call 1-866-451-2901.
- Legal Resources for the Elderly: Legal help for New Mexicans age 55 and older. ALTSD lists 1-800-876-6657.
- Family Caregiver Center: The Family Caregiver Center offers support groups, care navigation, and caregiver education for people caring for adults. Call 505-494-4021.
Tribal, rural, and Spanish-speaking households
For tribal elders, one Medicaid rule matters. New Mexico’s Turquoise Care overview says Native Americans can generally choose Turquoise Care or fee-for-service Medicaid. But Native Americans who receive long-term care services, such as Community Benefits or nursing-facility care, are required to be in Turquoise Care. The same state page says people can keep using Indian Health Service or tribal clinic doctors while enrolled in Turquoise Care.
For rural and frontier households, use the statewide doors first. ADRC covers the whole state. New MexiCare is also statewide. This matters in places where there may not be enough agency workers close by.
For Spanish-speaking families, ask for Spanish materials when you call. The Community Benefit page includes Spanish information, and ADRC can guide families to the right state office instead of sending them from website to website.
Phone scripts you can use
Calling the MCO care coordinator
Hello. My name is [name]. I am calling for [senior’s name]. They have Turquoise Care with [plan name]. They need help at home with [bathing, dressing, toileting, meals, transfers, supervision]. Can you screen them for Community Benefit services and explain how a family member can become a paid caregiver?
Calling ADRC
Hello. I care for an older adult in New Mexico. We need help at home and want to know if paid family caregiving is possible. Can you help us check Community Benefit, New MexiCare, Veteran Directed Care, respite, meals, and transportation?
Calling about New MexiCare
Hello. I want to ask about New MexiCare for a person age [age]. They need help with [two or more daily activities]. Can you tell me the current income and resource rules, what documents we need, and how the caregiver payroll process works?
Calling the VA or VDC contact
Hello. I am calling about a veteran who wants to stay at home and may need help from a family caregiver. Can you screen them for Veteran Directed Care and tell us whether VA caregiver support or PCAFC may also fit?
Resumen en español
Sí, en Nuevo México a veces se puede pagar a un familiar para cuidar a una persona mayor. Pero no existe un programa sencillo para todos. La ruta principal es Medicaid por medio del Community Benefit de Turquoise Care. Un hijo adulto normalmente es más fácil de aprobar que un cónyuge, porque el cónyuge tiene reglas especiales y necesita aprobación adicional.
Si la persona mayor tiene 60 años o más y no encaja bien en Medicaid, revise New MexiCare. Este programa estatal puede ayudar a personas mayores que necesitan apoyo con dos o más actividades diarias y cumplen con las reglas de ingresos y recursos. Los veteranos también deben preguntar por Veteran Directed Care.
La mejor primera llamada para muchas familias es al ADRC al 1-800-432-2080. Si la persona ya tiene Medicaid completo con un plan MCO, llame también a su coordinador de cuidado. Antes de empezar, prepare identificación, pruebas de ingresos, estados de cuenta bancarios, tarjetas de Medicaid o Medicare, lista de medicinas, y una lista simple de las tareas que la persona no puede hacer sola.
No empiece trabajo pagado antes de la aprobación. Normalmente se necesitan documentos de empleo, revisión de antecedentes, formularios de pago, y el sistema EVV para marcar horas. Si recibe una negación o una carta con fecha límite, pida ayuda rápido y guarde toda la correspondencia.
FAQ
Can I get paid to care for my mother or father in New Mexico?
Yes, possibly. If your parent qualifies for Community Benefit under Turquoise Care, New Mexico says a family member can be paid. If your parent is age 60 or older and not a Medicaid fit, New MexiCare may help. If your parent is a veteran, ask about Veteran Directed Care. An adult child is often easier to approve than a spouse because a spouse has extra rules under Medicaid.
Can a spouse be paid to care for a senior in New Mexico?
Sometimes, but not automatically. New Mexico Medicaid treats a spouse as a legally responsible individual. A spouse needs health-plan approval. In self-direction, spouse payment is only for extraordinary circumstances and must be renewed each year.
Does the senior need Medicaid to qualify?
For the main Community Benefit route, yes. That program is Medicaid. But New MexiCare is a separate state program, and Veteran Directed Care is tied to VA rules. That is why the best first call is often ADRC.
What is the difference between ABCB and SDCB?
ABCB means the caregiver works through a provider agency. SDCB means the member or Employer of Record hires and manages the worker with help from a support broker. New members must start with agency-based services for at least 120 days before switching to self-direction.
How much do paid family caregivers make in New Mexico?
There is no one statewide paycheck amount. In agency-based care, the employer agency sets the wage. In self-direction, the worker’s rate must fit the approved budget and state rate limits. New MexiCare and VDC use individual budgets. Be careful with any website that promises one flat wage for every caregiver.
Is there a waitlist for caregiver help in New Mexico?
There can be. New Mexico uses a Central Registry and allocation process for many Community Benefit applicants. The state says the process may take many months, and allocation packets must be returned within 45 days from the mailing date. Families already on full Medicaid with an MCO may have a different path, so call the care coordinator right away.
What if my loved one only has Medicare?
Medicare is not the main paid-family-caregiver path in New Mexico. Ask ADRC about Medicaid Community Benefit, New MexiCare, and Veteran Directed Care. Also check whether Medicare Savings Programs can help lower health costs.
What taxes may apply to caregiver payments?
Tax treatment depends on how the caregiver is paid. Agency workers are usually employees. Self-directed workers also use payroll forms. For some Medicaid waiver payments, IRS Notice 2014-7 may apply if the eligible person lives in the caregiver’s home. Private-pay family arrangements can involve household employment rules in IRS Publication 926 and the IRS family caregiver tax page. Ask a tax professional before relying on a social media answer.
What should I do if we are denied?
Ask for the written reason. Read the deadline on the notice. If the case is Medicaid-related, the denial notice should explain appeal steps. Contact Fair Hearings or legal help if you need support.
About this guide
We check this guide against official government, local agency, and trusted nonprofit sources. GrantsForSeniors.org is independent and is not a government agency.
Program rules, funding, and eligibility can change. Always confirm details with the official program before you apply.
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Editorial note: This guide is written for older adults, caregivers, and adult children in New Mexico. We focused on official state and federal sources first and used outside sources only when they added practical clarity.
Verification: Last verified May 5, 2026. Next review September 5, 2026.
Corrections: If you find a broken link, outdated phone number, or program change, email info@grantsforseniors.org.
Disclaimer: This article is general information, not legal, tax, medical, financial, disability-rights, or benefits advice. Final eligibility, approved hours, and pay rates are decided case by case by the responsible program, health plan, agency, or VA office.
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